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A time to remember every mother

Friday, May 16th, 2008

Today is mothers day – a day to remember all our mothers. We remember our mothers every day or not, a day likes this to appreciate their contribution shows our gratitude.
Stories after Stories, we all have something to say as good about our mothers. When I look back my mother, she could not verbally express a lot of things positively, but her actions did. She was a school teacher in her whole life – she understood the importance of education in every child’s life, so she wanted me to have the same.

‘Do you want become an engineer or a doctor when you grow up?’ a familiar question to children – something to stir their mind, to decide on a destination they can dream of. I never had any idea who I should become, a doctor or an engineer when I was growing up, but I wanted to be an Engineer – who should not when you get 98-100% grade in mathematics.

My mother was so particular about me getting the top rank – a system when you score much than others – in the school. She entered me to vacation school for tuition under some brilliant minds – they taught me how to solve problems. I remember days when she allowed me to watch a movie in a theatre only after I completed solving a chapter of mathematical problems.

My brother did not have a lot of challenges when he got admission into a State Engineering college – I’m talking about the year 1981. The system changed when I completed my college to enter Engineering. The state Govt. introduced an Entrance exam – you can get entry to an Engineering college only passing an entrance exam.

I did write the exam, well enough to get to Mechanical Engineering which was not my favorite. I was disappointed, but my mother found a way for me. A friend of hers, whose son was studying in a different Indian state for Computer Engineering promised her to talk to the same college for my admission. I had the merit, so the college granted me the admission.

When I look at my office table, I see some wonderful things on my table – my laptop, a broadband internet, knowledge bases, inspirational books – because of my mother’s persistent pursuit to bring the best in my life.

I thank God for my mother – she gave me good education.

Lives will be lost at University Avenue, Provo with our knowledge

Friday, January 11th, 2008

I’ve driven through the University Avenue for at least 2 years. The avenue leads to the Brigham Young University. It is a peak time every working day between 8:00 AM and 9:00 AM. The BYU students rush to their classes during that time. I’ve thought to myself the pedestrian crossing at 1820 N is a dangerous spot. That fear became a reality when I heard the news last week about a 24 year old BYU student who was hit by a car on that spot.

Everyone will agree with me that 1820 N on University Avenue is notoriously dangerous. Today, I again drove through that area. What a shame! There has been nothing done in that place to prevent further accidents. I watched some students crossing the road on a cloudy day without any orange flags – this is the same situation of that girl who was killed few days back also. Except the traffic on two lanes, nobody has stopped for them to pass through. I could even see the fear on their pedestrians face. Another funny scene brought fear in my spine – a young man passing the road with head-phone on and listening to music.

A lot of drivers on the University road are new – either they are new students, or relatives or friends visiting the students. The drivers who are not familiar with that area will find it difficult to spot a pedestrian signal – on a snowy day it is hard to have visibility in that area. It is difficult to press car brake on a slipper road also.

Neither the University nor the Provo city is doing anything to prevent future accidents in that area. The students and the parents of the BYU university should contact the Governor Huntsman to take some immediate actions – this will help both the pedestrians and the drivers.

Can you mend her broken heart?

Thursday, February 23rd, 2006

The war pictures bring shiver down your spine – it brings sorrows, angers and all kinds of human emotions to you.

This is the horrible war picture I ever saw. The mother in the picture is carrying the boots of her two sons who were killed in yesterday’s Iraq Civil war with her face rained in blood – I felt like hugging this mother. I don’t know whom should we blame for the blood on her face, but I know what kind of heart ache she will go through.

I say a prayer for you mother.